Dreamland Review
Though this book starts out somewhat slow, once it gains momentum it becomes intense. The defining thing that sticks out in my mind is the cycle of abuse. Early in her relationship with Rogerson, Caitlin witnesses his father smack him hard across the face. When he started turning his hand on her, it really wasn't all that surprising. That's the way he knows to express his frustration but watching the abuse kick up in intensity was gut wrenching.
Caitlin began to function her entire life around Rogerson, fighting to keep him in her life, keep their abusive secret, and keep him from laying another hand on her. Given her age as a teenager, even though her actions were incredibly stupid, I could understand it. She loved Rogerson in a way that had never happened with anyone else, falling for him quickly from the start. Throughout the entire book, I just felt pity for both her and Rogerson. References were made to his father's hand more than once- it was certainly not a one time thing with him and even at the end of the book, I didn't entirely hate him. I still felt empathy towards the boy who had made many mistakes, forged his own rough path, and was having to live with the consequences. I also had to wonder, once word got out of the abusive relationship, how Rogerson's father dealt with it- and how many hits the boy had to take.
Right at the beginning of the book, the dissonance between Caitlin and her older sister Cass is shown. When Caitlin wakes up on her birthday morning to find her sister gone, having run off with her boyfriend, she talks about how much she doesn't want to be in her sister's shadow anymore. Having the burden of her parent's needs fall on her didn't help any of the situations and though it seemed incredibly random for her to see Rogerson outside a party and just go with him, I could also see her reasons. Cass would never do that- if Caitlin did, she would be set apart. The same went for cheerleading and many other things, her life first becoming a way to be different and then fading into the background while she tried to hide every mark and bruise.
All Caitlin had known for years, however, was how to follow and unknowingly, that's exactly what she did walking out the door with Rogerson that first night. She went along with everything he did, finding ways to ignore the bad. In some ways, her parents were ignorant and didn't pay attention but even if they doted on her every move, Caitlin still could have easily hid what was happening- she did. There were opportunities for her to tell but she kept them in, every time. This wasn't a result of bad parenting- it was a result of a teenager trying to figure out who she was, forced into it at an uncomfortable time.
It wasn't until close the end when things started kicking up in intensity that I found myself completely engrossed in this book but this experience was interesting. As the title of the book suggests, Caitlin was going through her life almost in a dreamlike state, keeping things at a distance from her and that's how I felt in much of this book- like it was a little distant. Dessen's writing pulled everything together, however, leaving me stunned by the end.
Only because I felt there were a places where things lagged am I giving this one 4 stars but the characters were fantastically done, the emotions charged, and the plot easy to follow. I would love to say teenage girls could read this book and know to get help in this same situation but for the same reasons Caitlin hid it, I know they won't. This book brings to light how easy an abusive relationship is to hide and how smoothly the cycle of abuse can continue, each victim taking it in silence.
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Dreamland Overview
Rogerson Biscoe, with his green eyes and dark curly hair, is absolutely seductive. Before long, sixteen-year-old Caitlin finds herself under his spell. And when he starts to abuse her, she finds she's in too deep to get herself out...
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Strange, sleepy Rogerson, with his long brown dreads and brilliant green eyes, had seemed to Caitlin to be an open door. With him she could be anybody, not just the second-rate shadow of her older sister, Cass. But now she is drowning in the vacuum Cass left behind when she turned her back on her family's expectations by running off with a boyfriend. Caitlin wanders in a dream land of drugs and a nightmare of Rogerson's sudden fists, lost in her search for herself.
Why do so many girls allow themselves to get into abusive relationships--and what keeps them there? In this riveting novel, Sarah Dessen searches for understanding and answers. Caught in a trap that is baited with love and need, Caitlin must frantically manage her every action to avoid being hit by the hands that once seemed so gentle. All around her are women who care--best friends, mother, sister, mentor--but shame keeps her from confiding in any of them, especially Cass, her brilliant older sister, whose own flight from home had seemed to point the way.
Dessen has here created a subtle and compelling work of literature that goes far beyond the teen problem novel in a story rich with symbolism, dark scenes of paralyzing dread, quirky and memorable characters, and gleams of humor. With the consummate skill and psychological depth that brought her praise for Keeping the Moon, she explores the search for self-identity, the warmth of feminine friendships, and the destructive ways our society sets up young women for love gone wrong. (Ages 14 and older) --Patty Campbell
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you should read this book - kelli l bailey - vail, co United States
this book was s great. I loved it. there was always something going on. I could ever put it down
Eye opening read. - Marie - California, USA
Caitlin wakes up on the morning of her birthday to find that her older sister Cass has ran away from home. And from there, things go downhill. Caitlin doesn't know what to do with herself, she witnesses her parents falling apart and her mom doing crazy thing after crazy thing to hide the hurt. Caitlin herself tries not to fall into the mold of her older sister and tries to do things Cass wouldn't do... like join cheerleading. Her mom starts treating Caitlin the way she treated Cass, always involved in her activies, always invovled in every single move of her life. Then she meets Rogerson who people have "heard" about. She doesn't care about the rumors, just the way he makes her feel.
I was attracted to this book because of the fact that it delt with abusive relationships, which is something I am extremely interested in. The book doesn't start off that way, of course. It tells you about Caitlin and her family's struggles everyday, how she tries to cope with the loss of her sister in her life and about her relationship with Rogerson that doesn't really make any sense. The abuse comes out of nowhere, but I guess that's much like real life. And of course, after that first strike, the ones after it come much easier. Caitlin starts staying away from her friends, making up lies, covering herself with clothes that don't show any skin and hiding brusises. In a story like this, you end up frustrated with the character, wondering why they don't just leave. Especially when they're well aware that the relationship they're in is wrong. But you can't help but feel bad for Caitlin, with all she's going through.
I want to say I liked this book, but I guess I just expected a little more from it. Either way, it's a book well worth reading.
kibri - OH THE LOVE TO READ - OAKLAND, CA USA
i bought the book for my daughter. i always let her read about the book before i order it, but this time she was dissappointed. She said the book is boring and she didnt like the fact that it was based on a sister whom was nearly grown & college aged who ran away. Her input was why are the so focused on the sister running away? WHO CARES SHE ALMOST GROWN, she states the story drags on & on before any action happens
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